141. The confidence nobody talks about: what year 35 taught me
The day before her 36th birthday, Andrea hits record alone and gets honest about the year that quietly changed everything. She made less money in coaching than she has in years — and has never felt more sure of herself.
In this episode, she reflects on the four questions she was unknowingly working through all year, what happened in a somatic therapy session the day before turning 36, and why she's done keeping her confidence private. This one is for anyone who's been building something that doesn't make sense on paper yet, and doing it in that quiet, certain way that nobody talks about enough.
In this episode, we cover:
(00:00) Intro
(00:30) Back on the mic after a travel season
(01:43) The Breakfast Club: what it is and why it exists
(03:15) Making less money and feeling the most certain she ever has
(04:33) Why confidence has been sold to us all wrong
(07:25) The four questions she was unknowingly asking herself all year
(14:41) Meeting her therapist in person for the first time
(15:40) The realization: confidence doesn't have to be private
(17:37) Following the breadcrumbs
(23:44) Celebrating 140 episodes, top 3% worldwide, and 50+ experts
(25:26) The hard stuff: the financial trade-off, the doubt, and reconnecting with Scotty
(26:07) What she'd tell herself a year ago
(28:31) Birthday intention for 36
KEY TAKEAWAY
Stop downplaying yourself!
